If the lug nuts protrude from the surface of the adapter more than the depth of the lug nut clearance holes in the wheel, you'll never get them tight with the spinners - I'm assuming you have the wheels properly indexed on the adapters when you install them - lug nuts in the five large holes, and pins in the five smaller holes. If any of the drive pin holes are "egged", that will just make it worse as the pins work back and forth in the "egged" holes with acceleration and braking loads, which will cause the spinners to loosen (and will gradually make the holes even more egg-shaped). They can be refurbished by boring the pin holes oversize and sleeving them.